Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Considering divorce? Good reasons to wait for January.


Going through a divorce during the holidays can be emotionally wrenching, which is why many people don't do it - they put it off until January.
 
"People don't want to upset the apple cart over the holidays, and they want a peaceful Christmas, Hanukkah or New Year's. And then, because they don't want to spend another damned year with that spouse of theirs, as soon as the holidays are over they pull the plug and file," says Alton Abramowitz, president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.

While there are no hard numbers on how many divorces are filed in January, Abramowitz says it's undoubtedly a popular time to act, rivaled only by September, when marriages break up after the summer holidays. Yet waiting for the holidays to pass doesn't all come down to simply wanting a harmonious holiday season. There are sound financial reasons to wait until January.

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Falmouth Mediation

Falmouth Mediation is a full-service, client-centered mediation practice focusing on divorce, family and business mediation.  We proudly serve the communities, and surrounding areas, of Upper Cape Cod.  Falmouth Mediation is dedicated to advancing an affordable forum for assisting families, individuals, groups and businesses to develop their own fair and lasting solutions without the large investment of time and money or the antagonism and stress that adversarial litigation almost always requires.

We believe that, generally, most disputes do not need to be resolved using the adversarial court system.  When the courts are involved, cases often exhaust the parties' emotional and financial resources, result in a decision being imposed on the parties, and generally produce a poor outcome for everyone.  For this reason we limit Falmouth Mediation to out-of-court resolutions of conflict.  Because we are not involved with litigated cases, our services are targeted, affordable and responsive to the needs of the clients rather than spent on lengthy and inefficient court appearances or emergency filings.  As a result, we can control our clients’ costs to a greater degree than we would be able to do if we were litigating their case.  Most importantly, our focus on non-adversarial mediation and client self-determination enables us to direct our attention to listening and helping our clients make their own responsible decisions to resolve matters and find the best solution for all concerned.

Working without any professional help and engaging in an all-out litigation war are two ends of the spectrum, neither of which is desirable by the vast majority of people.  We urge you to contact us to explore the wide range of services that we offer to help you resolve your conflicts.  

Falmouth Mediation can assist in resolving a host of matters including:
  • Divorce:  separation settlements, alimony / spousal support, division of property, post-decree modifications.
  • Parenting plans, child support, child custody, and visitation issues.
  • Business disagreements:  financial disagreements, contract disputes, homeowner / contractor, landlord / tenant, roommates, and condo associations.
  • Family conflicts:  inheritance disputes and elder care.
  • Real estate differences: purchase and sale agreements, easements, adverse possession, land use, and zoning.
  • Community disputes: conflicts between neighbors and problems within the broader community.
  • Workplace relations:  employers / employees / co-workers, discrimination.
  • Consumer protection:  warranty and 93A claims.