A
paradox is a contradiction: holding as true two ideas that appear inconsistent
or logically impossible. Let’s say, for example, Mom and her children agree she
can no longer stay in her home. The wealthiest child insists Mom moves to an
upscale assisted living residence. But the other siblings think it’s more
important that Mom’s money lasts as long as she does. Mom wants both.
In
this excellent article Carolyn Parr examines how to deconstruct such a paradox
as well as offering how a mediator can frame the question so that family
members are able to examine both wings of the paradox. In this case, “How can Mom move into an
assisted living residence with amenities she likes and make her money last?”
If you or someone you know could
benefit from structured assistance in family decision making, contact Falmouth
Mediation at 508-566-4159 for a free, no-obligation, private,
confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of
your situation, address any concerns and help you decide if elder mediation would
be beneficial.
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