When parents choose mediation, a non-adversarial method toward divorce, they're less stressed, which in turn reduces stress for their children. Parents must focus on their shared parental responsibilities, shifting the traditional "win-lose" posturing. Having relaxed, responsible parents translates to healthier, well-adjusted children.
In this excellent blog posting from The Maine Free Press, Judith Hatch Orme writes that "mediation provides good preparation for parenting after separation or divorce. It will be necessary to co-parent, making important decisions for your children. The other person will be your child's other parent for the rest of your life. There is clear evidence that most children are best served when receiving the emotional and financial support of both parents. Further, conflict adversely impacts children. When caught in the crossfire of divorce, they experience sadness, anger, loss of security, and diminished self-esteem, at a time of heightened vulnerability."
Like Judith, helping parents develop parenting plans that lead all family members ultimately to a place of increased growth, understanding, and personal empowerment is my goal.
If you or someone you know could benefit from assistance in decision making during a divorce, contact Falmouth Mediation at 508-566-4159 for a free, no-obligation, private, confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of your situation, address any concerns, and help you decide if divorce mediation would be beneficial.
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