In most divorces I've handled where the couple have children, they fight to be able to see them as much as possible. It can be hard to share them but that is what has to be done in order for everyone to win. A plan is made and approved as far as parenting time and the children are encouraged so that they can adjust to it.
Yet not everyone wants to have a role in the lives of their children after a divorce. As difficult as this may be to understand it is, unfortunately, the truth. In this excellent blog posting, Carol Ferguson, writes about the many reasons why a person may not want to have anything to do with their children after a divorce.
Children can be severely affected by this type of scenario. They can definitely blame themselves for their parent removing themselves from their lives. Sometimes they will blame the parent they are with for running them the other parent off. This is a discussion you need to have with your children. You can decide how honest you want to be with them about it.
If you or someone you know could benefit from assistance in decision making during a divorce, contact Falmouth Mediation at 508-566-4159 for a free, no-obligation, private, confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of your situation, address any concerns, and help you decide if divorce mediation would be beneficial.
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