10 Important Facts About Divorce

Even if you think you’re familiar with divorce, this tumultuous time in your life can be very challenging. In this excellent blog posting several experienced divorcees share what they wish they had known prior to getting divorced.

All of these facts are important. And, as a divorce mediator, I was especially taken by the last:

"Your family becomes a “case” in the court system. If possible, try to avoid a face to face meeting with a judge. Do your best to reach a decision with your spouse. Regardless of the facts behind your situation, your outcome may be affected by an earlier decision or yesterday’s case. The court system is backlogged and each family isn’t always able to get the attention they deserve. Court is not the venue to right the wrongs of your marriage. It’s a place where people who can’t reach an agreement themselves go to have a stranger make decisions regarding their lives and those of their children."

If you or someone you know could benefit from assistance in decision making during a divorce, contact Falmouth Mediation at 508-566-4159 for a free, no-obligation, private, confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of your situation, address any concerns, and help you decide if divorce mediation would be beneficial.