Mediation May Help The Divorce Process Go Smoother

It's an unfortunate fact that many marriages end in divorce.  Getting a divorce is usually stressful, heartbreaking and difficult for everyone involved, especially children. It can also be time-consuming and costly when contested matters are taken to court.

This article from World News Report discusses how involving a mediator is one option to help the divorce process go more smoothly.  The article points out that  mediation isn't for everyone, so it's important for divorcing spouses to weigh the advantages and disadvantages with their individual circumstances, and decide which method is best for them.

The benefits of a mediated divorce: 

• In a mediated divorce, a neutral third party discusses issues with the couple and helps them come to mutually-agreeable settlement terms.  When both parties are willing to cooperate, respectfully communicate and work with the mediator, this process can be very beneficial.
• A mediated divorce has the advantage of being up to 60 percent cheaper than a litigated divorce.
• A mediated divorce usually takes less time to complete than a contested divorce.
• Neither spouse is required to have an attorney present, although it may help for a lawyer to review the divorce terms or suggest changes before anything is signed.

When mediation isn't the best choice:

• When either spouse or children were subjected to verbal, emotional, physical or sexual abuse during the marriage.
• If either spouse has a problem with drug or alcohol abuse.
• If either spouse does not feel safe or respected during mediation sessions.
• When one spouse is trying to cause the other emotional pain or does not want the conflict to end.
• When one or both spouses can't be trusted to be fair or honest during mediation.

To learn how mediation can help you protect your rights and tailor an agreement specific to your family’s needs while saving you time and money, give us a call today at  508-566-4159  to schedule a FREE, no-obligation, private, confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of your situation, address any concerns and help you decide if divorce mediation would be beneficial.