Monday, February 24, 2014

The Power of an Apology in Divorce

In this excellent posting on the Huff Post Divorce blog Betsy Ross writes how, for divorcing and divorced spouses, a heartfelt apology can work wonders in beginning to heal relationships and in settling disputes.

Between divorcing adults, an apology, the genuine article, can promote dialogue, decrease emotional distance and even help to re-establish trust. At its very best, it is a healing gesture and a symbol of willingness to take responsibility for misbehavior and to own up to being human. It can also communicate a desire to truly hear and understand (and empathize with) the emotional consequences of the wrong doing that have been brought upon the injured spouse.

As Betsy has, I have occasionally witnessed, the positive impacts of a genuine apology from the divorcing 'wrong doer' (or from both spouses) regarding their role(s) in the failure of the marriage.

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