Wednesday, October 16, 2013

The Smart Way To Handle Family Fights About Aging Parents

Family conflicts can be so emotional and painful.   As parents age, many problems can crop up among adult siblings and sometimes with the elder himself.  Many of these problems arise from financial issues and caregiver issues. 

When adult children don’t get along, they usually just avoid each other.  That works, sort of. Until the aging parent becomes difficult, infirm or has a crisis.  The siblings are then forced to come together to make important decisions.  Then, buried resentments, sometimes decades old, rear their ugly heads. A tough situation gets even more difficult.

Is there a way out of these situations that does not involve spending resources on lawyers all too happy to bill for their time to advocate for each party’s position?

There is indeed.  One good way out of these conflicts is through mediation of family disputes, also called elder mediation.

Read Carolyn Rosenblatt’s posting on Forbes’ Personal Finance blog.

To learn more about elder mediation, contact me today at Alan@FalmouthMediation.com or 508-566-4159 for a free, no-obligation, confidential consultation.


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