The Many Faces of Mediation: Elder Parents & Adult Siblings

Mediation can be extremely helpful in discussing difficult issues that arise with respect to elder parents and their adult children.

There are many concerns that need to be addressed as a parent ages. These concerns may focus on:

·         Housing and living arrangements

·         Need for additional caregiving

·         Need for financial help

·         Quality of life

·         Healthcare decisions

·         Estate planning

In this excellent blog posting, Susan Ingram, speaks about how mediation provides an excellent forum to bring the family members together to discuss these issues and reach pragmatic solutions. It’s important to have all of the stakeholders be part of this conversation. Stakeholders would include the elder parent, if at all possible, as well as all siblings and other family members who want to be involved.

At Falmouth Mediation we work with and support families in having the discussions necessary to work through these critical residential decisions. With training in issues related to estates, eldercare and social gerontology we can help facilitate family discussions about matters relating to safety, finances and capabilities while keeping in mind the senior’s desire for individual control and respect.

If you or someone you know could benefit from structured assistance in family decision making, contact Falmouth Mediation for a free, no-obligation, private, confidential consultation. We will be happy to discuss the key details of your situation, address any concerns and help you decide if elder mediation would be beneficial.